I simply don’t believe people hide behind words for very long. Finding the right words is a process of finding one’s self.
Think about shopping for clothes. I find a selection of pre-made clothes. I try them on, and mix and match, until they fit me right, make me comfortable, are appropriate for the occasion and express myself. Sometimes I’m surprised by a color or style and think to myself “hey, that looks pretty good on me!” No one would say I’m being false for wearing clothes.
It’s the same with words. You can wear someone else’s words and style, but the same words don’t work the same way on any two people. It still doesn’t hurt to try them on until you find the ones that are true for you.